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Deflective

22/10/24, 10:15 am - Mark: Hey, did you manage to look at those dates for the weekend trip? 
22/10/24, 11:20 am - Sarah: Oh hey! Just saw this. Been such a whirlwind morning here.
22/10/24, 11:21 am - Sarah: Everything is just moving so fast lately lol 
22/10/24, 11:45 am - Mark: I get it. Just need to know if we're booking or not before prices go up?
22/10/24, 1:12 pm - Sarah: I’m sure it’ll all work out honestly.
22/10/24, 1:13 pm - Sarah: Let’s just see how the week plays out first.

Polite

15/11/24, 6:30 pm - Elena: Good evening. I was thinking about your new project.
15/11/24, 6:32 pm - Elena: I’m a little worried you’re taking on too much again. 
15/11/24, 6:45 pm - David: Thanks Elena, but I’ve got it under control. I’m actually excited.
15/11/24, 7:02 pm - Elena: Of course you are, you’re so ambitious.
15/11/24, 7:03 pm - Elena: I just hate to see you burn out like last time.
15/11/24, 7:05 pm - Elena: For your own health, wouldn't it be better if I handled the client calls?

No Accountability

03/12/24, 9:00 am - Jim: Hey, the power bill didn't get paid. We got a late notice.
03/12/24, 10:45 am - Paula: I honestly can’t believe this is the first thing I see today.
03/12/24, 10:46 am - Paula: I’ve been under so much pressure with my sister's health stuff.
03/12/24, 11:00 am - Jim: I know it’s been hard, but you said you had it last Tuesday.
03/12/24, 11:15 am - Paula: It’s always something I’m doing wrong, isn't it?
03/12/24, 11:16 am - Paula: I’m trying to keep everyone happy and I just get criticized.

Healthy & engaging

[01/03/2024, 09:12:05] Alice: Good morning! Did you sleep well?
  [01/03/2024, 09:14:22] Bob: Morning 😊 yeah not bad. A bit tired honestly. You?
  [01/03/2024, 09:15:01] Alice: I slept great actually. Looking forward to today
  [01/03/2024, 09:15:45] Bob: What do you have planned?
  [01/03/2024, 09:16:30] Alice: Gym, then maybe we could grab lunch? Only if you're free though, no pressure
  [01/03/2024, 09:18:00] Bob: I'd like that. Let me check my morning first

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